Three days and counting. The door is about to close!

Since my last post, I have called my mother 2 more times to no avail. She is still ignoring my messages.

I have it 7 days starting March 10 for her to call me. I sent her the card saying I am not perfect and that my relationship with her is too important to allow my brother to come between us but she just will not budge.


I will NOT crawl on my knees, begging for her forgiveness. I did nothing wrong but speak the truth. It is not my fault she likes to keep her head buried in the sand all the time.

My god, there must be a mountain in the middle of the floor from all the sweeping things under the carpet. Sure, she is going to be 78 this year but come one now, you have to be able to deal with things better than this.

So, after 49 years, she has made the decision to close me out. What she does not realize, she is inadvertently closing out her two grandsons and her great grandson. Does she not realize that by her actions, my own kids think she is being ridiculous and will not deal with her until she stops acting like a spoiled baby. 

It really makes me wonder what my dad would have said about all this if her were still alive. I am sure he would have told her to grow up and call me back. But alas, he is not here and my sister will not get involved with this issue. I can't blame her, she has been dealing with cancer and a sick child, this is the last thing she needs to contend with.

I guess tomorrow I will attempt again, as I have been and will continue for the next 3 days. Maybe she will finally pick up the phone, maybe she is fine allowing this to continue. It is hard to figure it out when she will not talk to me.

Will let you all know when the third day is over with and if she caved in and speaks with me.

Wish me luck!